How My Tolerance Increased Naturally | Surah Rehman Changed My Anger & Patience

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Before listening to Surah Rehman, I had no patience.
My tolerance level was almost zero.

Every small thing made me hyper.
There was no flexibility—
only rigidity, frustration and reaction.

Through constant mentoring by Waris e Qalandar and the nisbat of Qalandar Baba (RA), I slowly realized that the real work was not to change others—but to change myself.

I learned that character is not improved by force,
nor by harshness toward oneself.
True change happens with love, awareness and consistency.

Listening to Surah Rehman became a remedy—not overnight, but gradually.
The transformation was slow, silent and deep.

But it was permanent.

Where there was anger, patience appeared.
Where there was rigidity, flexibility was born.
Where there was constant reaction, there is now understanding.

This journey taught me that when your connection (nisbat) is strong, your character naturally improves.
Not through pressure.
Not through ego.
But through Allah’s mercy and continuous remembrance.

If you struggle with impatience, anger, or emotional imbalance—
this message is for you.

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