In this deeply moving reflection, a follower of Qalandar Baba Bukhari (RA) shares how nisbat completely changed his inner world.
Before this connection, he did not understand what a soft heart meant.
Love was just a word.
Emotions felt distant.
The pain of others was unnoticed.
But through nisbat, something awakened.
Gradually, his heart began to transform.
Hardness turned into softness.
Indifference turned into care.
Now he feels the pain of others.
Now he considers others before himself.
Now love is not just spoken — it is experienced.
He says this nisbat made him realise the taste of real love — a love that purifies, awakens and brings the heart to life.
This is not an instant change.
It is a gradual awakening.
A transformation from within.
Watch this powerful journey of how a heart once unaware of love became alive with compassion, softness and true spiritual connection.