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Why don’t people praise me?”
“Why are others appreciated, but not me?”A follower of Qalandar Baba Auliya (RA) shares how these thoughts once controlled his heart.
The constant comparison, the need for validation, and the silent complaints slowly disturbed his peace and confidence.
Everything changed after nisbat.
Through this sacred connection, his entire personality transformed — not by chasing praise, but by letting go of it.
Without demanding recognition, his character improved, his conduct softened, and his intention became sincere.
And then something remarkable happened.
Students began to praise him on their own:
“You are our role model.”
“We follow you, sir.”That is when he truly understood —
only Allah is tareef ke qabil.When the heart seeks Allah’s acceptance instead of people’s applause, alignment begins naturally.
Respect follows sincerity.
Honour follows humility.This is the power of nisbat.
This is the silent working of Faiz-e-Qalandar.✨ Stop asking “Why not me?”
✨ Start trusting Allah.
✨ Let Allah handle your honour.
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